A space to create, a place to cope
The weight of the
fertility journey
is real.
There is a particular kind of exhaustion from the fertility journey. The hours where there is hope. The hours where it isn't. I built Create & Cope for that exhaustion — and for every part of the journey in between.
If any of this is you —
You are in the right place.
Both are welcome here — the honesty and the hope.
Find something to reach forWhat I've built
Something for every moment
in the journey
Not a programme. Not a pathway. A set of things I made from the inside of the experience — for wherever you are today.
The Cope Toolkits
Five digital toolkits — one for each moment in the journey. For those with decison fatigue on the heaviest of days.
Partner Pack
Cards for the moments when words between partners aren't working and communicating is difficult. Something to hand across without having to explain. For both of you.
1:1 Coaching
Trauma-informed, emotions-led coaching with someone who has been through seven years of it. Not to fix it, to have somewhere to put the weight of it.
Creative Workshops
A small group. Something to make with your hands. A room where everyone already understands — so nobody has to spend the time explaining.
Dinner Series
Private dining. Ten people. No agenda. No workshopping. Just the particular relief of being with people who already know.
About Becky
Built from the inside
of the experience.
I spent twenty years building a career in marketing. I also spent seven years navigating fertility treatment — Clomid, IUI, IVF, donor egg conception. I came out the other side. I didn't come out unchanged.
I built Create & Cope to support others going through this journey, a journey we didn’t choose for ourselves but one we find ourselves in. It’s not a programme, but a space to create, whatever that means for you on that particular day, hour or minute… and a place to cope with the weight of it all. Something to reach for on the days when the decision of what to do next is just one thing too many.
"I am not here to fix people. I am here for people to sit with their emotions, to process them in creative ways. Being still, present, and being with others is the focal point."
Becky Cann · Founder, Create & Cope
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For employers
Your people are carrying
this through your organisation.
I know what it costs to carry fertility treatment through a working life. Seven years of doing exactly that. I work with employers who want to support their people properly — not just with policy, but with the kind of human understanding that policy alone can't provide.
1 in 6 people of reproductive age experience fertility challenges. 73% say treatment made them less productive at work. 38% consider leaving their jobs. I know what this costs — from seven years of carrying it through my own career.